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Bedroom assertiveness

Many ladies are still not very assertive in the bedroom, and I keep wondering why. My sister who works for London escorts say it is because they are worried about expressing their fantasies to their partners. I must admit I think that she is onto something as I do feel a bit like that myself around my partner. Just like many other ladies up and down the country, I do have certain erotic fantasies but I seldom tell my boyfriend about them. My sister, and her colleagues at London escorts, say that I should not be so frighten to talk about my erotic notions and ideas.

Perhaps I should become more assertive so that we can have better sex. My sister tells me that a lot of her dates do talk about sexual issues to her and her other colleagues at London escorts. In fact, it seems that many men would like their ladies to be more sexually assertive and to introduce more ideas into their sex lives. The fact is that must of us do not talk about sex enough, and that is what I think my sister and her London escorts friends are hinting at. It is strange how we can manage to talk about other topics, but we find it really difficult to talk about sex with our partners.

Personally, I really enjoy sex toys. It took me ages to introduce sex toys into our sex life, and it wasn’t until my sister gave me a few different vibrators to try with my boyfriend. I sort of made a joke of it and hid one under the pillow one evening. At first my boyfriend was a bit surprised but I said it was a birthday present from my sister’s London escorts friends. That night we had some great fun, even though it was a bit awkward at first. But like my sister and her London escorts friends said, things got easier and now we are using different sex toys. My boyfriend enjoys it as much as I do.

I can’t get my boyfriend to “sex toy shop” with me, but I am working on that. He is not that much into shopping online, so I ordered some brochures instead. The girls at London escorts have suggested that I leave them scattered about the place to see if he sneaks a peak. In that case, I will show him some of the ideas that I like.

Yes, you can be more assertive but at the same time you have to sort of manipulate men. Most of my sister’s friends at London escorts have taught me a few tricks, and so far it is going great. There are days when I am really glad that I have this glamorous sister who works for the best cheap London escorts services in town, and knows about these things. I have suggested that she starts to write her own agony aunt column online somewhere. Not only would it be great fun, but it would give some people a lot of good advice as well.